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How To Notice When Someone Is Lying To You By Observing Their Faces

Have you ever wondered how would it be if you could tell when someone was lying well, I was reading this article called how to tell when someone is lying to you by observing their face and I found it really interesting that you can just tell when someone is lying? I think this skill would come in very handy because you would be able to tell when someone is lying to you and, it could be the difference between a good or bad relationship with that person.

There are many organizations that know many techniques to notice when you are lying like, the FBI, private investigators, and detectives. There are many different expressions that someone makes when they are lying like being nervous, sweating or shifty eyes.But before you can notice when a person is lying to you, you have to know how they act when they are not lying.Here is where I will state some things people do when they are lying.

 

  • Eyes Darting Back And Forth

 

When someone darts their eyes it means that they don’t feel comfortable with something, for example, a lie. Its also a way how people escape “dangerous” questions like, questions that can’t be answered honestly. So when a person starts darting their eyes take it as a warning that what they are about to say is most-likely going to be a lie.

 

  • Rapid Blinking

 

When some people are stressed or worried about something they blink a lot (6-7 times). The average person blinks every 10-12 seconds so just do the counting and if you see something just rapidly blinking you will be able to realize that, that person is lying. But do remember that this does not apply to people with Parkinson’s and schizophrenia because those people have different blinking rates.

 

  • Closing their eyes for long periods of time

 

Some people that blink for longer than a second it’s probably because they lied to you or they are just tired. This works as some kind of defense mechanism because people will have time to relax while in the dark of their eyes. The average person blinks once in 100-400 milliseconds.

 

  • Looking up to the right

 

I know this sounds kind of far-fetched but it says that if a right-handed person looks to the right they are lying if they look to the left they are telling the truth. For left-handed people, this is reversed. And some people will just stare straight ahead when telling the truth.

 

  • Fake Smiles

 

People can also lie about their feeling like with smiling when there is a real smile the skin around the eyes will wrinkle up when it is a fake smile it will just don’t with the mouth. A fake smile is also harder to maintain than a genuine smile.

 

  • Incessant Scratching

 

Sometimes when people are lying they start to scratch themselves it is a reaction to their never responding to their actions. It is also considered of a way of relieving stress.

 

  • Excessive Sweating

 

When someone is lying most people will start sweating most likely because they are scared that you will catch them in their lie also, as they are sweating they might try to wipe it away quickly so you won’t notice.

 

  • Blushing

 

Some people mostly women blush after lying this is a sign of embarrassment that they had to go as far as to lie to you.It is also a sign that this person is not used to lying or doesn’t like to lie. Because blushing is caused by adrenaline.

 

  • Doing something over and over

 

This is something that I know right off the bat because I have done this, I do this when I lie I start messing around with my hair or I start cracking my knuckles and I do it over and over again this is probably a sign of nervousness.

Those are some of the most recognizable things people do when they lie or are about to lie. But keep in mind some people just like doing some of these things so don’t become paranoid with thinking that every person that you talk to is lying. So don’t worry maybe you will be able to recognize every single lie thrown at you. Well, I bid you good day or night whenever you are reading this.

September 22nd, 2017 by cesargomez

10 Things You Should Stop Caring About Today

Have you ever thought about why we care about the things that other people think of us I think it doesn’t make sense? This is my first blog I hope it’s also hoped it’s one of my best ones the link for the article is right HERE.There are some people that always care about what other people think about them. I think that that makes no sense because about some small details for example who is going to help you get up when you are on the floor only a few people and that’s family. That’s why you shouldn’t care about what anyone else cares about you because, in the end, it’s you that helps you to get through all the dark parts of your own life. We should all care about trying to be right all the time think about it if you are always right you will never learn anything new because if you learn from your mistakes but you are never wrong then you will not learn anything. We also have to stop caring about how we look always with girls and sometimes also with boys,”Hey dude/friend do I look ok” People are always asking this question and it makes me want to say stop worrying about how you look if I am your friend I won’t care how you look I will like you for who you are. Don’t care what people want for you take control of your own life it’s your life and it’s your dreams, hopes and goals don’t ever let someone else tell you what you are going to be when you grow up it’s your decision, not someone else. “Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma, which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice, heart, and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.”-Steve Jobs. Some other thing that some people need to focus on is that don’t be scared to fail just be scared to give up. Don’t be scared of boundaries you can beat and you will surpass all boundaries. You can pass your limits we were made to beat limits and be able to fight against all limits. We have to stop caring about what other people have and we don’t we should think about what we have and what some don’t. For example, sadly there are some people that don’t have a place to call home or a roof to shelter to roof them from the rain or other bad weather. We always focus on what we don’t have and what we want but when we do want something it’s the only thing we can think about but when we finally get that thing we don’t even use it. Also sometimes we compare ourselves with someone else and we think man he so much better at me at everything. That’s a lie because everyone has strengths in something and everyone has weaknesses in specific things. So when you compare yourself with someone else keep in mind that some people are better at something’s and some people are better than others. More things that people need to stop caring about is trying to be perfect nobody is perfect and no one will ever be perfect it’s just impossible because if you try to do perfection in one thing you’ll start slacking off in another. So perfection is just simply impossible and if you attempt perfection you will fail. The only thing you will perfect during your attempt at becoming perfect is your stress. Through a long and painful process, I’ve learned that happiness is an inside job – not based on anything or anyone in the outer material world. I’ve become a different and better person – not perfect, but still a work in progress.-Alana Stewart. We also need to stop caring about things that are out of our control we can’t control it so don’t blame yourself over it. It happens a lot someone dies and the closest family member to him/her blames him/herself for that person’s death. Calm down it’s not your fault you didn’t cause it you shouldn’t blame yourself for something you didn’t do. I think that forgetting all of these will help you live a healthier, happier life. You shouldn’t care about your mistakes. Mistakes are a good thing they help you learn they teach you what’s good from the right. Mistakes can also teach you a good life lesson and sometimes mistakes can be the difference between life and death the thing with a mistake is that you can’t go wrong you either succeed or win or you learn a life lesson and win also so it doesn’t matter what happens.

September 5th, 2017 by cesargomez

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