7 Unconventional Ways to Build Your Confidence
In this article it talks about the ways you yourself can do or improve to maintain a certain level of self-confidence. It also relates to setting goals and making a plan. It’s like you’re experimenting your abilities on trusting yourself and the ability you possess. To also remember ” The best way to gain self-confidence is to do what you are afraid to do”-Swati Sharma. Here are the seven ways you can do to improve your self-confidence.
The first step to improve your self-confidence is “Take chances that make you feel uncomfortable”. What it is telling you is to take on problems or responsibilities you are afraid to do. If you trust on yourself you can believe that you can do it. You have to learn and adapt to new changes in life. Try not to get help of other people try it for yourself and you will be happy that you did. The second step is “Fail fast and Fail often”. Fail is a process of learning and gaining more self-confidence. You prove to yourself that no matter how many tries or times you fallen you will succeed. It’s like steps for success.
The third step is “Be wrong and be OK with it” . You have to try not being worried that you’re wrong. “People who take the position of always being right aren’t confident, they’re being cocky”. People how think that there always right they won’t be able to learn from their mistakes. That lowers self-confidence. It’s better to find out what’s right then being right. The fourth step is “Compliment others and help them smile”. If a person is thinking negatively about themselves it lowers their self-esteem. It is better if you support them no matter if they’re wrong you’re building their self-confidence and your making them feel that it is okay to make mistakes (sometimes). Dont gossip or backstab them. Better, support them.
The five step is “”laugh in the face of frustration”. It’s better to let out what you feel inside instead of holding it in . Try to think the good side in a bad situation. The six step is to “Ignore what most people think about you”. That’s something that’s gets int he way of your confidence. Other stuff that can effect you are comments that your friends or people post about you that’s called “Cyber bullying” which is different in this topic. Just don’t let be happy for who you are.
The last step is to do it. The examples and steps i gave to you will help you in supporting your self-confidence. Be afraid take risks that will help you succeed even more in life. You could even be a role model for other people who struggle to have their own confidence. “When you have confidence, you can have fun. And when you have fun, you can do amazing things” -Joe Namath.